Ken, 86, now
lives on his own in their Citrus Heights home. He visits his wife nearly every
day, though he confided recently to Danijela Stroud, Eskaton activities
director, “I do not believe she recognizes me anymore.” According to Stroud,
this melancholy conversation with Ken, as Dolores sat passively nearby,
proceeded into a trip down memory lane.
He spoke of
her love for horseback riding and gardening, his passion for bike riding, and their
frequent mountain hikes. His storytelling and attention to detail was likely
perfected by a career in journalism, spanning three decades, mostly with the Sacramento Bee.
Ken also shared
a glamour shot of his bride, pulled from his wallet. But it was when he spoke
of their favorite romantic pastime – picnics – that both Stroud and Ken were surprised
and thrilled to see Dolores’ stoical look morph into a huge smile.
“She remembers,
it’s a miracle,” exclaimed Ken. The moment was not lost on Stroud, either, who
set in motion plans for a once-in-a-lifetime anniversary picnic.
It truly was
a day to remember as several dozen fellow residents joined the celebration, for
which Eskaton staff prepared the couple’s favorite food -- chicken and apple
pie -- and even arranged for the special guests to be serenaded with their
favorite country music.
Eskaton and
its Fair Oaks Care Center help residents experience a wide range of
life-enrichment programs, such as the anniversary picnic. Last year, Stroud and
her co-workers arranged a unprecedented birthday celebration for five
centenarians. Plus, there’s Thrill of a Lifetime events and the Kids Connection
program to routinely create pleasant distractions within the community.
