Tuesday, February 28, 2012

FALSE DEADLINES WITH GOOD INTENTIONS.

FALSE DEADLINES WITH GOOD INTENTIONS. No one resents a “false deadline” more than me. But then I am responsive -- a professional imperative for journalists. Publishing and handful of other professions (i.e. tax preparers, hostage negotiators, military generals) live and die by real deadlines. Too many others, however, use deadlines as casual reminders or threats or worse -- to burden subordinates with making up for wasted time. The false deadline can be identified for having no actual consequences once missed.

Conversely, “false deadlines,” when used with discretion, can serve a useful if not universally successful purpose. They can minimize your stress and calm your ulcer by obligating habitual procrastinators (i.e. lawyers, insurance agents, unnamed coworkers) to work with you instead of against you; in your time zone where time is money and accountability counts.

Ideally, the best way to reconcile the contradictory use of false deadlines is for all so-called ”professionals”  to value time as a shared gift rather than a personal possession.

1 comment:

  1. Thank you for this perspective. It's such an important thing to discern wisely, especially in the health and memory care profession. When we tend to get too attached to our own agenda of "getting things done", it's so easy to miss out on those connections with another human being.
    Those are the moments that offer that precious shared gift, which is for me is why I'm involved in memory care to begin with.

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