FALSE
DEADLINES WITH GOOD INTENTIONS. No one resents a “false deadline” more than me. But then I
am responsive -- a professional imperative for journalists. Publishing and
handful of other professions (i.e. tax preparers, hostage negotiators, military
generals) live and die by real deadlines. Too many others, however, use deadlines
as casual reminders or threats or worse -- to burden subordinates with making
up for wasted time. The false
deadline can be identified for having no actual consequences once missed.
Ideally, the
best way to reconcile the contradictory use of false deadlines is for all
so-called ”professionals” to value time
as a shared gift rather than a personal possession.
Thank you for this perspective. It's such an important thing to discern wisely, especially in the health and memory care profession. When we tend to get too attached to our own agenda of "getting things done", it's so easy to miss out on those connections with another human being.
ReplyDeleteThose are the moments that offer that precious shared gift, which is for me is why I'm involved in memory care to begin with.